Daberechi Ubachukwu (Dabz) is a well-respected

Daberechi Ubachukwu (Dabz) is a well-respected FECAite, from Nsukka chapter, currently a a member of FECA Nsukka FOSM. He is a professional software engineer at Tenece. Read about his profile here. He is currently married. And he lives in Enugu. 

My FECA Story in FECA Nsukka

"I was a victim of low self-esteem. I could not do it for myself.; it has to be to please one person here and another person there. I just wanted to be cool, even though I was not cool. But then I met these set of people that did not look cool but were cool. They taught me that being me was enough, and as long as I have Christ in me that was more than enough. So I learnt to do me and to love me. I learnt that I could be the very best; that I could pursue after excellence. I was looking for friendship, but family found me. FECA found me..."

Love's Plea...Let me (Poem written by Daberechi Ubachukwu, A.K.A Dabz)

My people don't seem to understand me 

Worst still, they don't want to understand me

They summarize me in their myopic way and store away in a shelf

But now, it's about time I introduced myself

I'm plain and as simple as ABC

If you'll just look a little deeper, then you will see

I'm not just the words you profess

Those are superficial, most times, useless

I'm something more special, something priceless

And when I come between two people, I make them a success

Look for the tiniest glimpse of good even where evil outweighs

Then I blow up the good and turn whoever from their evil ways

I'm neither hyper nor hypo-critical,

I'm as honest as I come; I'm far from cynical

And as gentle as they come, I never get physical

I go hand in hand with trust, there is no room for betrayal

 

So, girl, when that guy follows you up and down

That ain't me stalking

When he promises to make your world go round

That ain't me talking

So don't cry, "I caught my love making out with a whore backstage!"

'Cos when I come, I come in a full package

So if you are so foolish as to get your heart broken

Don't blame me because I've had to take that again and again without a word spoken

Don't u realize that as you hurt me from heartbreaks time after time,

I hurt too 'cos I'm the victim here not the crime.

 

And for you boy, when that girl sucks you dry

That ain't me you're feeding

So when you end up broke and start asking why

Why is it me you start beefing?

Will you stop that song! How dare you say that I am wicked!? (Brick 'n' Lace)

When you've already made plans for another girl by next weekend?

 

People, you have abused me for too long!

Now my only plea is to be placed where I belong

Love me and let me teach you how to love

Let me teach you the principles we use up here above

I'm more than a feeling, I'm a personality

The One who loved you first, the focal point of your spirituality

I am LOVE! I am God!!! 

My only plea is to be loved...and to let love.