Relationships • Emma Onyemaechi • 6 May, 2025
Rule Number 1: Never be the first to say, I LUV U. See why.
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Saying "I love you" first can often backfire—it’s one of the quickest ways to diminish attraction. Why? Because when a woman senses you’re more emotionally invested than she is, it can shift the dynamic. Respect starts to fade. Many women are drawn to mystery, to the slow unfolding of emotion. They’re not seeking someone who pours out his heart too quickly or easily. They’re drawn to men who carry themselves with quiet confidence—men who let their love be earned, not handed out like a prize at a fair.
The mistake many men make is rushing to declare their feelings, thinking it will deepen the connection. But instead of sparking love, it often triggers discomfort. She doesn’t feel swept away—she feels unsure. She begins to question why it came so easily, why you gave her something she hadn’t asked for yet. And in that moment, the spark can flicker out.
According to Amerix, a man of strength doesn’t need to rush. He gives her space to feel, to wonder, to pursue. If she truly cherishes him, she’ll speak her heart first. And when she does, he chooses whether or not to meet her there. Weak men chase love. Strong men become the kind of men love naturally pursues.
So ask yourself: will you be the man she can’t forget, or the one she walks away from?
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