When you're tired is when you really need sex. Sex and especially orgasm helps you to release the tension that has been stored up in your body in exchange for freshness....

When you're tired is when you really need sex. Sex and especially orgasm helps you to release the tension that has been stored up in your body in exchange for freshness. This is why after orgasm, your body feels light. Then you feel like sleeping immediately. When you finally sleep, your sleep will be deeper and more sound. 

My wife and I have individually testified that we sleep more soundly and wake up as fit as a fiddle when we take this all important tablet shortly before going to bed. So if you want to really have a sound sleep - which actually involves pushing out every tiredness from your body and rejuvenating yourself- you should have sex before going to bed when you're tired. The fact is my wife and I never deny each other sex just because one of us is tired, or we're both tired. It only means that whoever is asking for it under such circumstance will not mind doing the whole work all alone. If I'm the one, all she needs do is to take her sleeping position - and sometimes be sleeping while I'm taking care of her and also taking care of myself without asking for any input from her. "A woman cannot perform when she's tired." You don't have to perform on this occasion. Just make your body available, I'll do all the performance. 😀😀😀

Fact is there is hardly any of the sleeping positions that can't be a sex position. If the woman faces up, even without bending her knees (bending the knees may be discomfort for someone who is tired), sex can take place. If she places a pillow under her buttocks, it may make entry for the man easier. But that's for starters. Some of us needed those pillows in the early days. But today, to the glory of God and blessing of mankind, pillow or no pillow, work goes on. In this position, she can continue to sleep while the sex lasts. If she faces down, with also a pillow under her pelvic bone, her butt will tilt upward and then rare entry will be possible and easy while she continues to have her rest. But even without the pillow, it is equally possible (in case the pillow will affect the smooth rest of a tired baby girl.)😅 Note however that a lot of lubrication is required to make entry from this angle without discomfort. So, help yourself lavishly with artificial lube if necessary. If she chooses to sleep on her side, entry is also possible from the side. To make it easy for you to get this position, you may first enter in the missionary position and then turn on your side without first coming out. If I'm the one that is tired and my wife wants to have sex with me, all I do is take my sleeping position on my back facing up and then she comes on top and does all the work while I only enjoy the fruit of her labour. Because there's no one to do foreplay for her and make her naturally lubricated, she will in such situation have to help herself with artificial lubricant for the sake of a seamless motion. At the end of it all, the truth is even me that claimed to be tired or depressed - I'll thoroughly be refreshed by the orgasm and able to sleep deeper and more soundly. 

DON'T DENY EACH OTHER SEX BECAUSE YOU'RE DEPRESSED

As you can already see, don't refrain or deny each other sex because you're depressed either. When you're depressed, the fellowship and warmth that sex with your spouse - your number one fan and life partner- brings is able to warm you out of depression. If it's your husband that's depressed - maybe because he just lost his job or due to some business losses or losing out of a contract, or some other upheavals, one way to lift him out of depression is to give him a spontaneous, hot and sizzling sex. After getting the news, you can sympathize briefly with him but don't allow yourself to be depressed with him. Two people cannot be depressed at the same time. When one falls, the other lifts him up the bible says in Ecc 4:9&10 when talking about why two are better than one. If you also get depressed who will lift up the other? Choose not to be depressed. Take that man into the room, tell him he's going to come out of the problem and you'll stand by him until it happens. Throw him on the bed, remove his clothes and give him a hot sizzling sex. 

My wife did such a beautiful thing recently. We were driving to Ekiti for a family function when right in the middle of the road the vehicle just went off. By the time the mechanic arrived, the diagnosis was that my engine had knocked and the only solution was to replace it. Engine of #800,000 (Nigerian naira). Few weeks before, I had lost the gear and replaced it at great cost and lost many other things of great price around the same time. This was like the final stroke that's breaking the camel's back. I was too depressed. But my wife maintained such an unfazed demeanour throughout. She deliberately remained in high spirit. I'm sure the news also affected her because she knew all we'd passed through in business for some weeks prior. She just chose to be strong for my sake. She will come to where I was intermittently and cheerfully to just lift my spirit. When finally we were to sleep, she turned to me and told me, "would you want to have sex?" She knew I will find it useful. She was having to ask only because we were sleeping in a family house where privacy wasn't too perfect and so she needed my opinion. If it were in our own house, I knew what she would have done in such a situation. She would have taken me like a sheep led to the slaughter without asking for my opinion. A depressed man can't even take off his own clothes. It's the job of the wife who wants to minister strength. That's the way it works. When we finally returned home the following day, I knew what I went through.😂 The situation couldn't weigh me down because I had a wife who was pumping me up constantly and from whom I was tapping strength.

Conversely, when a wife is depressed, she will not likely appreciate spontaneous sex in her case. You will first need to sit with her, listen to her as she unburdens her mind to you. Then empathize with her first. Draw her close to you and put her head on your chest. After enough empathy, if you have some solution to the issues worrying her mind, then tell her you'll do something about it (never offer solutions before showing empathy). As a correct man, you have to literally lift all the burdens in her mind and put them upon yourself. By the time you've done this, she feels a lot better and encouraged. You can then ask that you lie down so you both can relax. Her head is on your chest by now. You're now cuddling her beginning with stroking her hair, playing with her earlobe and saying encouraging words to her. You know she needs some hot sex at this moment. But you have to take it gradual with her. While the cuddling continues, somehow somehow, one of your hands will stray to where the bra strap is, you will unlock the strap. Then gradually gradually...By the time you're done with action, she should already be sleepy. Let her then sleep. If you're now a very loving husband, get into the kitchen and make something nice for her so that when she wakes up, you can treat her to some cold yoghurts with her favorite meal. You just killed depression.

Ok, two important lessons we're learning today:

1. Tiredness is never an excuse not to have sex. 

2. Depression or unhappiness is never an excuse not to have sex. 

If you add these two principles to what you already have, you will have far more peace in your marital relationship than you can ever imagine.

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