Be mindful of her needs and appreciative of her sacrifices. The work a woman does at home can be too common that nobody will appreciate her for them, this can be killing her....

Be mindful of her needs and appreciative of her sacrifices. The work a woman does at home can be too common that nobody will appreciate her for them, this can be killing her. Appreciate your wife for the meal, the tidy environment, for taking care of your children, for being there always for you. Praise and adore her body after love making. All of these will encourage her to intensify more effort and her best would be achieved.

GET INVOLVED BEFORE SHE BURNS OUT

Don’t just be appreciative, but get involved. The best time to begin helping your wife is now. Don’t wait until she breaks down to offer a helping hand. Don't leave her to handle all chores all alone. Be concerned and remorseful to lend her helping hands. Don't have the mind set that it's her duty and full responsibilities to handle the chores all alone while you balanced in the sitting room watching champions league. Staying with her in the kitchen alone having conversation with her while she cooks could go a long way in her heart.

GET HER SOME MACHINES

Get some of the machines needed for her work at home (the ones you can afford). Dish washer, gas cooker, refrigerator, oven, laundry machine, etc. This will relieve her of doing everything manually. House chores alone are tedious and are capable of getting a woman outgrown her real age. Your woman could get old too quickly. Let alone if she combines chores with office or business.

BE AN ACTIVE PARTICIPANT

Be totally involved at home, stop delegating parenting and family life. Don’t be a “visiting Professor”, be an active partner in this business of your life. It takes two to parent. It takes two to make a marriage work. It takes two to run a household. Be fully involved in every aspect of your family life. Stop sending your children to your wife claiming they are disturbing most times when you are at home and they really want to feel your presence. Embrace them and give them listening ears.

If your presence is not felt when you are at home, nobody will feel your absence when you aren't around. Your bsence shouldn't be their source of happiness. Some wives are always free and relieved immediately their husbands stepped out of the home for work. Mr. Lion at home but sheep in the office... You are fire at home but water at office. Everything regarding the house and the kids are left for your wife all alone. Just to assist your child with assignment when your wife is busy in the kitchen, you can't. She feels like a single parent when you are still alive... Come! What is the essence of your existence in that home?

JUST LISTEN TO HER

Men are known to be good talkers but very bad listeners. At times what your wife needs is for you to just listen. Do not interrupt, let her unburden, let her talk. Sometimes the best way for a woman to reset is by getting all of her thoughts out. Let your wife talk through her feelings and problems. Show empathy. Listen carefully. Ask questions. Be fully engaged in the conversation. Don't always be too judgmental. Listen carefully to whatever she has to say. Women love men with good listening ears. They see them as those who cares and intelligent.BE A PARTNER NOT A TEACHER.

Most men do fall into the “Teaching trap” when they are supposed to be a partner, showing love and consideration. Do not blame, just be there for her. Just listen. That’s all you need to do. And if she wants you to offer solutions, she will ask for them. Correct her wrong doings with love and respect. Don't shout at her in the presence of the children or neighbors.* This won't get her changed but more stubborn and mean.

BE SENSITIVE

Get to know her mood, get to know her needs, get to know what is needed to be done at home and do them without prompting. Learn the act of looking around the house and finding things that needed to get done. Are there dishes in the sink? What is broken that needs to be fixed? Don’t wait to be asked. Just do it! Giving her helping hands willingly makes her feel happy and blessed to have you as husband.

Conclusively,

ALLOW HER TO CRY, IF SHE MUST. “Stopcrying, are you a baby?, will you be crying about this little thing?” Just know if she feels like crying, hold her to yourself and let her do the crying while you pet her on the back. t’s a great way to fix some problems at times. Let her shed some tears while you pet her. Some women love to express themselves through remorseful tears.

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