First of all what is RED FLAG: It's a cue, warning, or alert; a sign or signal that something is wrong. With the little definition I believe you have know what red flag...

First of all what is RED FLAG: It's a cue, warning, or alert; a sign or signal that something is wrong. With the little definition I believe you have know what red flag sign means in a relationship?

How can you identify red flag in your relationship?

Red flag starts when you begin to see strange behaviors from your partner that is not usual or common to him/her. When situations like this is happening in your relationship just know that there is red flag sign in your relationship.

Examples of reg flag: 

1. When your partner start causing break in transmissions. Sometimes for days he/she may not call you and when you called he/she usually ignored your calls even when you don't have misunderstanding in your relationship. Even if there is argument, your partner is not expected to ignore your calls. He/she is expected to hear your side of the story no matter the level of anger. 

2. When your partner start keeping distance from you. Avoiding your calls and text, chat, etc. If he/she start nagging for no real reason.

3. When your partner start beating or start acting crazy because of the little misunderstanding you have or a simple mistake you have made, instead of correcting you it's beating upon beating. 

4. When your partner start seeing negative things in your life. When he/she thinking there's nothing you can do perfectly on your own. Everything you are doing is always wrong to him/her and still not ready to correct you for things he/she is accusing you of doing wrong.

 5. When your partner start putting someone outside your relationship ahead of you. For example: A guy who has a girlfriend but keep another Lady outside the relationship who he called Beatie and he always put her ahead of the girlfriend.

6. When your advice stop making meanings or sense to him/her, when he/she stop seeking your advice but preferred others outside the relationship advising him/her than you. They make you feel less impatient. 

7. When your partner is always freak about sex than showing you true feelings.. If the only thing he/she appreciate or cares about is when you give him/her good sex. No other way to help you than giving you sex.

8. When he/she is not ready to help you when you are facing challenges, such a person will always find one excuses or reasons for not helping you.

9. When jealous and greed is too much in the relationship. They are jealous to the point they don't want to see opposite sex around their partners... but they can keep their own friends and won't want anyone stop them from keeping opposite sex as friends. 

10. When he/she is making you feel your relationship with them will have no future or positive ending... he/she don't make plans with you, you don't even know where the relationship will end and whenever you asked about it he/she start nagging at you.

11. When he/she is not proud of showcasing your love to friends and family. Your relationship is secret, it's only between you and him, non of his friends or family knows about you, if you want to tell your friends he/she stops you and turn it to fight. 

12. When your partner start keeping secrets for you in the relationship. For example: He bought some properties like Land, House, etc.. he won't let you know, when he traveled in or outside the country you may not know. He won't let you know until he is back or when he is done with everything he is doing there... If it's not what he has been doing before believe me it's a red flag sign. 

13. When he/she stops being romantic and making you happy in the relationship. You are always lonely no attention giving to you again. 

14. When he/she start seeing you as great burden to him/her. If he/she always avoid you and keeping complaining that you are always disturbing him/her.

15. When he/she stops being understating and patience with you. Red flag signs are many in relationship, there are lots of red flag signs that I may not mention here but take pain to understand it when your partner is changing there behavior. The moment they start changing that's when red flag start showing up in your relationship.

What can you do when your partner start showing red flag signs.

Call him/her to order. Dear, I have been noticing some changes in you these days, you were not like this before what happened... this is not the way you are doing to me before, what did I do wrong? Tell me I will apologize and if he/she said nothing just tell him/her what they start doing that he/she have not been doing before. If you try to correct him/her once or twice and there is no changes.. just know that someone might have been taking your place in his/her heart.

After those warnings, stop acting as if you once saw him/her acting strange again, just keep looking at him/her till he/she make up his/her mind or decided to stay or leave you forever. Don't force anyone to stay in your life, don't let love weak you to a point of crying and begging someone to stay in your life. Those who are meant for you will definitely stay forever and anyone who is not meant for you no matter you keep them they will leave you... anyone who finds you as good stuff will always find a way to stay in your life for a lifetime... don't try to prove people wrong or impress them that you are a good stuff, let them know by themself the stuff you are made of and if they don't care to know let them be.

In conclusion, red flag can come into anyone's relationship. You are smart or dull doesn't mean you can't experience it, don't think because you know his/her family, he/she can't leave you again. Always observe your relationship and plan for the worse at all times so that when it happened you won't be disappointed too much. Try to know it when things is going well with your relationship and when things is going wrong, don't let too much of love blindfold you. Can you imagine a Lady who said she was in a relationship with a guy who post another Lady every times on his timeline and never for once post her that she thinks he is dating? He is always writing all the sweet and romantic words as comment and description on his uploads, he was telling you not to worry yourself that she is a common friend and you believe that trash... Wise up Girl what kind of friendship is that? Some can even go far blocking you from seeing it if your friends who have seen it told you what she saw you will ignore and still don't believe it because you trust him and you are in serious love with him, you are even thinking your friend is the lying or jealous of your relationship and want to ruin it or thinking she don't want you be with him .. please always do your own findings and check whether what such friend said about him is true or it's a lie before you conclude fast.

Trust but don't trust people too much because no one is made to be perfect and stop letting love blind your eye so that your love story won't end a story that is so touching.

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