Dear Lady On Fire,

Everybody knows you need a man who can take care of you and meet your needs, financial and otherwise. Nobody expects you to marry a man who will...

Dear Lady On Fire,

Everybody knows you need a man who can take care of you and meet your needs, financial and otherwise. Nobody expects you to marry a man who will bring you into a life of suffering and hardship because he lacks financial wisdom, prudence and vision.But please, don't marry a man who will use his money to silence your voice. Don't marry a man who will give you money and take your Happiness, Peace and Joy. Because many women live in MANSIONS and in MISERY. Many women can't open their mouth to say what they go through in their marriages with their Rich, Powerful and Celebrity Husbands.

Dear Ladies,

You may see and place your financial needs as your top priority now, when you get married, you will suddenly understand that as a woman, you also have Emotional and Physical needs. Don't marry a man who presents a Financial Solution and then balances that with Spiritual, Physical and Emotional Problems. You need a man who is balanced. Money is good, but money is not everything. As a woman, have a handwork, work and earn money. Don't depend on any man for all your financial needs, it's a path to disrespect. You can work and buy a car for yourself. Many women have done so. You can build a house for yourself. And even if you can't, be content with what you can provide for yourself. Be proud that you aren't selling your body like others are doing to live exotic lifestyles that they can't afford. Let the money a man brings be an addition, something you can at least eat, cloth and survive without. 

Oh Yes!!! Marriage can bring a woman out of poverty. Yes a husband can be a woman's destiny helper, like Boaz was to Ruth.Yes, God can use marriage as a solution to a woman's and a family's financial predicament, I'm not arguing this. But if you chose to use this route to fame and wealth, please make sure you are not just marrying a rich man, but a good man as well. 

If he beats you up, Run!

If he threatens you, Run!

If he mocks you, Run!

You offend him, you apologize.

He offends you, you apologize, Run.

If he uses his money to punish you, withhold his financial assistance to humble or mock you, Run!!! 

Marry Well...

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