Relationship & Love
Paul Enigir • 2 April, 2026
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How Can I Know This Is the Right Person?
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  • How Can I Know This Is the Right Person?



    This timeless question haunts singles—superficial tips abound, but true discernment demands depth. Marriage succeeds when the right person marries the right person, applies right principles, and involves God. Get it wrong anywhere, and it crumbles.



    Be the Right Person First



    It takes a thief to spot a thief. Only the right person recognizes another under God's light. Rightness starts in your heart (spirit/soul) and understanding of marriage/life—not just checklists (mental, financial, emotional maturity).




    • Heart Check: Hidden motives? Wicked agendas? "The heart is deceitful above all things" (Jeremiah 17:9)—only God reveals truth. Physical vibes deceive.

    • Marriage Mindset: Wrong if you see marriage as "favoring" women, assume polygamy/affairs/divorce inevitable. Even an angel spouse fails with flawed foundations.

    • Result: Right + right = thriving. Wrong + anyone = disaster.



    2. Seek God's Clear Leading



    Pray fervently—fast if needed. Peace guards your heart (Philippians 4:7). No green light? Pause. God authors perfect matches, not panic choices.



    3. Test Compatibility Deeply



    Study personalities, values, conflict styles. Can you endure flaws long-term? Hot temper? Stinginess? Vision clash? Courtship reveals—sex distracts, honesty exposes.



    4. Involve Mentors/Counseling



    Wise counsel multiplies clarity (Proverbs 15:22). Pre-marital counseling uncovers blind spots—finances, in-laws, kids, roles. Solo decisions spell trouble.



    5. Observe Fruit of Character



    Consistent integrity over time. Generous? Forgiving? Teachable? Humble? "By their fruit you will know them" (Matthew 7:20). Flashy words fool; actions endure.



    6. Shared Vision & Values



    Aligned on faith, family size, finances, career, ministry? Unity strides; division stumbles (Amos 3:3).



    7. Emotional & Spiritual Safety



    Feels like home—peace, joy, growth. No manipulation, control, or constant fights. Healthy love builds; toxic drains.



    Adopt these: become right, seek God, test thoroughly. Wrong person + right principles still fails. Right person + God = unbreakable.



    Stay tuned. ❤️ Master P 👍



     










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